The story of my gender and sexuality.

Dark sky and lightning with purple colours too

I’d say I’ve always been what I am, in a way at least.  My identity wasn’t that relevant until my puberty started. I hated all the changes in my body. The body hair and boobs. I hated wearing a bra, from day one. My other parts have been always okay for me. But I did […]

My transition without gatekeepers

Transition without gatekeepers

This is my personal experience and I am not a healthcare professional. I have never believed in a system that has cisgender (and straight) gatekeepers aka healthcare professionals, who have the power to decide your identity for you and refuse your access to life saving health care.  I didn’t plan to have my transition this […]

Introduction

Focus on the details of your life

Hi and a warm welcome! I’m Otti and I am here to empower you, and to share my thoughts with you.  For over 20 years I have been working with different kinds of people. Helping them in different ways. Encouraging and giving my understanding. I am familiar with different challenges in life that you might […]

Living with chronic pain and incurable illness

My endometriosis and adenomyosis I have been living with endometriosis and adenomyosis since I was a teenager. I’ve had severe pains since my first periods. When I was younger, I just thought I was unlucky and that I was given the burden of bad periods. I remember being 13, crying in agony, I couldn’t move […]